My mom's advice about cake "your gramma and auntie found a cake place in Lake Stevens. Let them buy your cake, it will make two ladies happy and they don't have much [like that] in their lives" Good point mom. I guess that's a good enough reason to settle on cake. My community is more important than being "original". Even if I do prefer ice cream to cake... oh well. Good thing I've been looking at cutting cakes and have a style in mind.